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How A sees B
The Green Flag
Together you scan as
The Clean Read
GREEN + GREEN · YOU BOTH SEE A HEALTHY PARTNER
Each of you looked hard at the other and found nothing lighting up. No score-keeping, no silent treatment, no rewritten arguments in either direction. That’s not two people being polite; the scan asks about behavior, and you both described someone who shares the room and stays kind when wrong.
How B sees A
The Green Flag
A · READOUT
B · READOUT
What this pairing means
When both partners independently rate each other low on grandiosity, entitlement, empathy gap and manipulation, the two pictures corroborate each other, which matters more than either result alone. Research on mutual partner ratings finds agreement itself is a marker of a healthy relationship: you see each other accurately. The one thing to watch is that low-trait couples sometimes avoid conflict to protect the calm, so keep having the hard conversations; this is the profile that can afford them.
WHAT THE TWO OF YOU CAN DO
- Tell each other one specific thing you noticed while answering. Reinforce what’s working.
- If any single question made either of you pause, talk about that one thing directly.
- Retake this in a few months. A clean read is a baseline, not a certificate.
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